Write for us

We welcome thoughtful proposals about dating and matchmaking that help readers consider their choices without promising a guaranteed result. Send pitches through the Contact page, where you can choose the editorial question option and describe your idea.

What we welcome

We are interested in clear, original pieces about intentions, profile writing, conversation, compatibility and dating habits. A useful proposal might explain a choice, compare different approaches, unpack a common assumption or offer a calm plan for a particular dating situation. Keep the focus on ideas readers can weigh for themselves.

What makes a strong pitch

Tell us the central question, why it matters to readers and the main point your piece will make. Include a short outline of how you would develop it and identify any factual claims that need checking. Keep advice proportionate: do not promise that a technique will secure a match, assume one dating style suits everyone or present professional advice as general guidance.

Sending a proposal

Use the Contact page to send your pitch and select the editorial question option. You may include a proposed headline, a brief outline and a short note about your approach. Please do not send confidential material or assume a proposal has been accepted until we respond.